Remote-controlled love


It made me think, upon being thrown this question by a friend.
"Would you let your boyfriend control you because of your love for him, if you have one?"

I guess, it's a NEHHHH. I believe everyone has their own personal dreams, goals and not forgetting principles. It's a fine line between controlling and guiding your loved one. Love doesn't entitle a person the right to control the other. In fact, controlling may just change the nature of someone. So much for loving the person for they way they are? I think, everyone deserves a freedom of choice in life. It is something that even your partner shan't control. No doubt, a mistake may be made in making choices but take it as a challenge and learn from it. After all, that's what you call life right? The outcomes of our life depends on how we control it and maybe the partner will take control if you permit because you have lost your own control.

And this friend told that perhaps I'll think twice about this if I find Mr. Right one day.
Yea, Insya'allah I'll stand by what I said and not change it.